Six year old Brandon decided one Saturday morning to fix his parents pancakes. He found a big bowl and spoon, pulled a chair to the counter, opened the cupboard and pulled out the heavy flour canister, spilling it on the floor. He scooped some of the flour into the bowl with his hands, mixed in most of a cup of milk and added some sugar, leaving a floury trail on the floor which by now had a few tracks left by his kitten. Brandon was covered with flour and getting frustrated.

He wanted this to be something very good for Mom and Dad, but it was getting very bad. He didn’t know what to do next, whether to put it all into the oven or on the stove, and he didn’t know how the stove worked!

Suddenly he saw his kitten licking from the bowl of mix and reached to push her away, knocking the egg carton to the floor. Frantically he tried to clean up this monumental mess but slipped on the eggs, getting his pajamas white and sticky. And just then he saw Dad standing at the door. Big crocodile tears welled up in Brandon’s eyes. All he’d wanted to do was make them proud. He was sure a scolding was coming, maybe even a spanking.

But his father just watched him. Then, walking through the mess, he picked up his crying son, hugged him and loved him, getting his own pajamas white and sticky in the process.

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That’s how God deals with us. We try to do something good in life, but it turns into a mess. Our marriage gets all sticky or we insult a friend or we can’t stand our job or our health goes sour. Sometimes we just stand there in tears because we can’t think of anything else to do. That’s when God picks us up and loves us and forgives us, even though some of our mess gets all over Him.

But just because we might mess up, we can’t stop trying to “make pancakes,” for God or for others. Sooner or later we’ll get it right, and then they’ll be glad we tried…

ONE – Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO – Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE – Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR – When you say, ‘I love you,’ mean it.

FIVE – When you say, ‘I’m sorry,’ look the person in the eye.

SIX – Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN – Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT – Never laugh at anyone’s dreams. People who don’t have dreams don’t have much.

NINE – Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.

TEN – In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN – Don’t judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE – Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN – When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, ‘Why do you want to know?’

FOURTEEN – Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN – Say ‘bless you’ when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN – When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN – Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN – Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN – When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY – Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY ONE – Spend some time alone.

Jeffie was in his playpen and he was crying. Tears were rolling down his little cheeks, his face was red as it could be. He was crying, and he looked pitiful in his little baseball T-shirt and a diaper.

Then Jeffie’s Grandpa entered the room; Jeffie’s little face lit up when he saw his Grandpa! He immediately reached out his little arms in supplication and said “Out Pa Pa out.”

What is a Grandpa to do? How can someone resist that?

So Grandpa went over to the playpen, he bent over. He reached down to lift his little buddy from captivity and distress . . .

Just then “Law and Order” walked into the room.

Momma said “Jeffie, you stay right there! I’m punishing you because you have been naughty! Dad, leave Jeffie alone!”

What is a Grandpa to do?

Grandpa backs off and is thinking, “I can’t just pick up a book and read it with Jeffie here. He would think I was uncaring and distant. I can’t leave the room because he would feel like I have abandoned him.”

What is a Grandpa to do?

But you know what? Love always finds a way. Since Grandpa couldn’t take Jeffie out of the playpen, Grandpa climbed in with Jeffie!

Grandpa said “If you are in the playpen buddy, I’m in the playpen too. What are you in for? What is your sentence?”

Having Grandpa join him in his “prison cell” brought Jeffie great comfort and joy. In the midst of his captivity, Jeffie no longer felt so alone.

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What Jeffie’s Grandpa did is also a picture of what Jesus Christ did for us when He came to Earth as a baby.

God the Father yearned to reach down into our “playpen of captivity” and pull us out. He could not . . . because of our disobedience . . . because of our sin. What did God do?

God climbed into our “playpen” with us!

When Jesus Christ entered into our “playpen of captivity,” He took the sin and disobedience that should have been ours alone, releasing us from our captivity . . . allowing us the opportunity to experience the fullness of life God has for us!

The message is simple, clear and personal:

God is with us . . . He loves you so much He sent His one and only Son, Jesus Christ!

“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have Eternal Life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him. Whoever believes in Him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.” -  John 3:16-18